{"id":3257,"date":"2024-05-19T12:51:11","date_gmt":"2024-05-19T04:51:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/homeofmaterials.com\/2024\/05\/19\/pillow-talk-7-secrets-to-making-a-perfect-bed\/"},"modified":"2024-05-19T12:51:11","modified_gmt":"2024-05-19T04:51:11","slug":"pillow-talk-7-secrets-to-making-a-perfect-bed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/homeofmaterials.com\/de\/pillow-talk-7-secrets-to-making-a-perfect-bed\/","title":{"rendered":"Bettgefl\u00fcster: 7 Geheimnisse f\u00fcr ein perfektes Bett"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you count all the hours we allot to plumping pillows, smoothing sheets, straightening shams, and fussing over how the whole thing looks, we spend as much time on<\/em> our beds as in<\/em> them. Yet the results never look as good as pictures in magazines. Enough already. I am a busy person and so are you. Here\u2019s a foolproof system to make a bed inviting enough to make it hard to say goodbye each morning.<\/p>\n

For tips on bed-making (and a philosophical discussion about what the state of your bed says about you), I turned to Tricia Rose, a bedding expert who owns Rough Linen and has given a lot of thought to the topic.<\/p>\n

\u201cVirtually any bed looks beautiful if it has a woman lying naked in it, on her side, seen from behind, with a sheet carelessly draped across her bottom,\u201d Tricia said.<\/p>\n

\u201cI could try that, I suppose, but I don\u2019t know if it\u2019s sustainable,\u201d I said. \u201cWhat about on days I have to go into the office? How can I make it look good then?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cEasy,\u201d she said. \u201cYou have to get to the heart of it\u2013what is your bedroom for<\/em>?\u201d<\/p>\n

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Above: A case for the loosely made bed. Photograph by Debi Treloar.<\/p>\n

Your bedroom is the most private room in the house, and it should be the most personal. Your bed should feel like the ultimate sanctuary and make you happy every time you get into it. \u201cShow-off-y beds are a thing of the past,\u201d Tricia said.<\/p>\n

So are fussy pillows\u2013remember the era of \u201cmy husband has to throw 14 tiny pillows onto the floor so he can get into bed?\u201d It\u2019s over. Instead:<\/p>\n

Secret No. 1:<\/strong> Get the right pillows. By all means keep your favorite pillow\u2013the flat, dingy one you\u2019ve been carting around since childhood because it has just the right squish factor to lull you to sleep\u2013but also invest in a pair of beautiful goose down pillows. On her bed Tricia has a White Goose Down Pillow; available in standard, queen, and king sizes at prices ranging from $104.99 to $172.49 at Warm Things.<\/p>\n

Goose down pillows will look plump and make your bed look welcoming no matter whether you lay them flat or prop them against the headboard. \u201cSome people do pillows like a stack of pancakes and others like magazines in a rack that faces forward, and either looks good,\u201d said Tricia.<\/p>\n

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Above: A set of standard size Garment-Dyed Linen Pillowcases is $65 and a Garment-Dyed Linen Flat Sheet is available in 18 colors; from $55 to $109 depending on size at Restoration Hardware.<\/p>\n

Secret No. 2:<\/strong> Buy a bolster. Then push it up against the headboard and leave it there. A twill 30-inch-long Bolster Cover is available in eight colors for $39 to $89, and a 30-inch-long Synthetic Bolster Insert is $26, both from Pottery Barn.<\/p>\n

\u201cIf you read in bed, having a bolster to fill in that horrible corner where the mattress meets the headboard, feels so much better,\u201d said Tricia. \u201cAnd it\u2019s no work at all, because you don\u2019t touch it. You don\u2019t have to move it to make the bed in the morning. It stays put.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Above: Bed linens made of linen; a Pure Belgian Linen Sheet ($154 for queen size) and a lightweight Summer Cover ($220 for a queen size) are available from Rough Linen.<\/p>\n

Secret No. 3<\/strong>: Instead of cotton sheets and pillowcases, put linen on your bed. (After all, this category of textiles is called bed linens<\/em> for a reason.) \u201cWhat I love about linen is you can stand at the end of the bed and with both hands go \u2018flick,\u201d and it looks beautiful, wrinkles and all,\u201d Tricia said. \u201cIt doesn\u2019t have to be perfectly smooth or perfect at all, because linen already is perfect.\u201d<\/p>\n

Linen linens look good even when mussed. But I have to point out this is not the way I was taught to make a bed. Housekeeping had very strict rules. My mother ironed bed sheets and taught me to make hospital corners before she taught me to read. On each bed: a fitted sheet, a top sheet, a blanket, a quilted bedspread, and two pillows. She folded back the spread, precisely placed pillows on it, then re-folded. Bed making took about 10 minutes, and the result looked like a dead body was lying under the spread at the head of the bed.<\/p>\n

How did your mother make the bed? Prepare yourself emotionally for Tricia\u2019s next suggestion; my mother (and probably yours) would consider it heresy:<\/p>\n

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Above: A tranquil, Shaker-inspired bedroom by Ilse Crawford at High Road House just outside London.<\/p>\n

Secret No. 4<\/strong>: Ditch the fitted sheet and instead tuck in a flat sheet around the mattress. \u201cFitted sheets are an excrescence,\u201d said Tricia. \u201cMattresses are all different depths. Fitted sheets never fit properly and they never look good.\u201d Instead, she suggests, use a big flat sheet\u2013if necessary, buy one that\u2019s a size larger than your mattress\u2013and tuck it tightly around the mattress.<\/p>\n

(Fitted sheet or no? Where do you stand on the subject? Tell us in the comments section below.)<\/p>\n

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Above: A generous Flat Sheet big enough to be tucked in all around the mattress is available in five sizes at prices ranging from $140 to $220 from Rough Linen.<\/p>\n

Housekeeping is a personal thing. Next to religion, I can\u2019t think of a topic on which I have stronger opinions. (Don\u2019t get me started on bleach.) Your mother, like mine, knew how to make hospital corners. Perhaps you still employ this technique every time you make a bed. If not, relearn; 18-year-old Army recruits can do it. Here\u2019s a Basic Training Video to refresh your memory.<\/p>\n

Secret No. 5<\/strong>: You don\u2019t need a top sheet. Instead, stuff a comforter inside a duvet cover (preferably a linen one) and let the cover do the job of a sheet. \u201cThe only function of a top sheet, if you have a duvet, is to wrap itself around your legs while you sleep and to become untucked,\u201d said Tricia.<\/p>\n

Bonus: by eliminating a top sheet, you will be able to make the bed faster and more easily in the morning.<\/p>\n

Above: A White Goose Down Comforter is $338 to $568, depending on size, and a Down-Alternative Comforter is $118 to $148 from Garnet Hill.<\/p>\n

Secret No. 6:<\/strong> Buy the right size comforter insert to stuff inside the duvet cover. \u201cThe silly thing is there isn\u2019t a standard for the sizes of duvet infills, so you can\u2019t just buy \u2018queen\u2019 or \u2018king\u2019 and be done with it; you have to measure your duvet cover,\u201d said Tricia. \u201cTo fill it up, buy an infill that is at least two or three inches larger. You can even buy one that\u2019s six inches larger, and the infill should mush nicely in there.\u201d On Tricia\u2019s bed is a Down Comforter from Warm Things.<\/p>\n

Secret No. 7<\/strong>: Buy nonslip casters and place them under the feet of your bed to keep it from moving. Then you can lean against the headboard and read without fearing you will slide all over the room. Under her bed\u2019s legs, Tricia has placed Nonslip Furniture Cups; they\u2019re $16.21 for a set of four from Wayfair.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis is all I have to do to make my bed look as good as if a naked woman were lying in it on her side?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n

\u201cWell, to make it look nearly<\/em> as good,\u201d Tricia said. For some things, there are no substitution.<\/p>\n

See more of Michele\u2019s Domestic Dispatches, including Will I Ever Master the Remote and The Unused Kitchen, and, on Gardenista, the Closet Cleanout: 10 Essential Clothing Pieces and How to Care for a Fiddle Leaf Fig Tree.<\/p>\n

N.B.: This is an update of a post published March 18, 2013 during Loft Living week.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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